empathy goes a long way....
a journey begins with but a single step.....whose journey are you walking today?
The news regarding racial tensions has not been good with very sad, very serious outcomes. My heart grieves for the pain, the loss and the uncertainty of the times we live in. The black community cries out how the Caucasian community doesn't care. Of how white people supposedly have it so much better.
What I need to ask you is, "how do you see others who do not share your skin color? Your religion? Your economic status? If you could walk in the shoes of another, who would you choose...and why?"
I see it this way: remember that school yard bully? The one who picked on you or stole your lunch or took your lunch money or any of a number of sad incidents? Do you remember the fear? The anxiety? The sleepless nights worrying about what tomorrow would bring?
That must be something of what those in the minority feel also on a much larger scale.
I hear reports of what terrorist rebels do in other parts of the world. Even the US waits for yet another attack such as what befell Orlando...or New York City. We wait...we pray, "not again!" we are on guard. "Why do THEY pick on US?" we ask. "What have WE done to generate so much hate from them?"
OK, now, take away those terrorists...and substitute what is happening in the black community. Or you can substitute any ethnic group, any religious group, any gender group, anything that you feel is less superior to you. Even the elderly...how often have you groaned when an older person in front of you takes up so much time at the cashier's line? Or in traffic? Or anywhere?
Back in the late 1800's to early 1900's when the Irish emigrated to the USA, they were treated as outcasts. They were given the lowest paid jobs, slum housing and nothing more than that. The Irish were able to climb up from those ranks. Today on St. Patrick's Day, celebrations are held across our country as the Irish are embraced with love and good cheer.
Yet other groups still cry out for recognition as well.
We all need to walk in the shoes of another. The next time you turn your nose up at someone who is different from you, stop and ask yourself why you feel that way? What has that person done to YOU to merit your disdain? Then...what can YOU do to put yourself out there to help them feel recognized in a positive way?
Our world is growing so quickly, yet shrinking even faster. As the population grows, as the methods of keeping in touch with others also grows, we are consumed night and day in a quicksilver moment of knowing exactly what is going on and where. We are also quick to make judgments before all of the facts are in and cast judgments online. How is that fair to anyone?
Remember what I said of how Americans fear terrorists on our soil? Being quick to judge makes you a terrorist also, albeit on a much smaller scale. Why would you want anyone to fear who you are? Why should they fear others?
We are all made in God's image and likeness. We are all His children. We all have 206 bones, bleed red and our hearts beat...though not always as one.
Today...look out for your fellow human being. Be an inspiration in a world filled with bullies. Show others that you are the example Jesus was...you know you can!
Let's do this together...shall we?
Rev Diane, this is Amber's mom-in-law, Sharon. I just want to reach out to you and to Rob, to thank you both for being such a positive inspiration for her. She was and always will be a delight to us as we mourn our loss. She spoke so highly of Rob and I know the difference he made in her life is also the difference that she made in the lives of so many others. You had her love, her admiration and she shared that with her children and all the children who crossed her path. If not for you, Rob, if not for that "what if" she didn't find you again, I cannot imagine the possible outcome. But she did...and the world is so much better for it. Truly. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteMrs. Bremer - Sharon -
DeleteThank You! I could stop there, and it perhaps be enough for some, but, MY GOD AND YOURS!!....the things that have happened since I agreed to take care of a small 3 or 4 year old child 20'something years ago...boggles the simple minds such as mine!
What if---Wow! How many times has that crossed my mind? Can't count that high! And because some wild and crazy single guy thought he would watch a kid for a weekend, the whole world would change for many others, thanks to "MyAmbers".
Holy Cow-Crap! "MyAmbers" is the best thing that ever happened to me, and I never got a chance to show her that. Minus my wife, of course!
What would have happened if we didn't find each other again?
I could go on and on, but......thank you for being there for her. You seem to be a very special lady yourself.
Y'all , Please do keep in touch.
God Bless MyAmbers----
rob
Please know, Rob,that her children are doing as well as can be expected. I also have received an email from the ReMoved Project that I would like to share with you. I will forward it tomorrow.
DeleteDear Sharon and James- You have our deepest sympathies at this time regarding the loss of Amber. She was a valuable asset to our program and helped so many children whose plight in substandard foster care was not very well known until lately. Please know that we will continue where she left off as our advocate and a voice with the children. Sincerely,...Angie Stone The ReMoved Project
DeleteAs you can see, Rob, if not for you, this legacy she has left behind never could have been made possible. Take comfort in knowing that everything came together just as it should have. All of the pieces had to fall exactly as they did and will continue to do so. She was/is our miracle.